Saja nak flashback kelahiran anak sulung kami 2 tahun lepas. Dah pernah tulis tp blog awal dulu dah gila. So, this story was combination situation and momment by me and my wife.
It was Fri, 27th May 2005, last working day for my wife before start her maternity leave. She dare to take 1 week before expected date of delivery (3/6/05). 2 weeks before, she was admitted at Hospital Putrajaya due to high blood pressure which is the doc said that it was normal complication but high risk for mum and baby. Being ‘jailed’ in the ward, cannot go other floor (they worried she may falled and will cause stroke/paralyze), eat all the tasteless food with only 1 side of lime (to have sour taste only)…so pity of her…every night called me and cried out that she want to go out from that hell..being there for 1 week, and at last she begged the doc to let her go home and will take any risk on herself. Finally the doc agreed, and she happilly called me to take her home.
27/5/05, it was night shift for me. Fortunately, all my kakak ipar datang umah and overnight there. So, nothing to worry, all of them can drive if any emergency happen. On that night i work as usual but rasa tak sedap hati (headhache and vommit sometimes). I just ignore it. At home, my wife told her “along” that she want to eat laksam and she plan to go to pasar borong in the next morning to buy all the ramuan la.
At 3 am, my wife felt stomach discomfort. She went to toilet and do whatever necessary there…huhuhu. Some contraction from the baby begin slowly. But she ignore it. She tried to sleep from 3 until 6 am, but still cannot. After subuh prayer, she told her sister “alang”, that she felt something wrong on her stomach and having backpain. She laid down and told her “along” that they will go to pasar by 8 am because she want to take a nap. Uhhh, she still cannot sleep and both of her sister come to our room and says that maybe she will deliver soon. By 8 am, I arrived and felt so sleepy. I laid beside her where sometimes she make a pain noise. I asked her, are u okey? She said, yes and sorry for disturb me. It is like tidur2 ayam to me because I still can heard and felt her discomfort. Until 10.30, she grab hard my hand and told me something like tear off at her bottom abdomen. She asked me to check for it. I found out, IT’S A BLOOD! She rush me to called “along” and “alang”. They turn up and asked me to call Mak Jah, bidan kampung to check 1st. I went to Mak Jah’s home and told her about my wife. Mak Jah said, just bring to the hospital. Arghhhh tension, penat! Drove back to home.
At home, my sister in law change my wife cloth, fed some food…oh God, she is so weak..then my wife shout, ada air keluar!!! She tought it was more blood. And her sister calmed her and said that it was ‘air ketuban’ (I dunno term in english). Along asked me to carry her downstairs. But i refuse to do so since i have not enough sleep and rest. So, me and my youngest sister in law (kapten Pait) hold her in left and right arm and slowly bring her down. Once again, she shout, ada air kuar lagi…(air ketuban la). Along and alang prepare my car,lay down the seat, put a cover on it. Kapten Pait sit at the back and try to calm her. She keep shouting, cepat la, cepat la, Ya Allah sakitnya…it let me to tear when i heard it.
On the way to Hospital Putrajaya, I asked Kapten Pait to give my wife a drink of air selusuh and wipe some of it on her. She didnt asked much and do what i said. But….Alamak, she wipe the air selusuh to my wife face not her belly. (Air selusuh tu kena sapu kat perut tp minah tu da tersalah). I want to laugh but hold it coz my wife is in pain.
At hospital, I parked my car in front of Wad Bersalin entrance. Rush out from the car and get help from the nurse. The nurse heaard my wife shouting from outside and straight away get the wheel-chair. She was helped to move out from the car and sit on the wheel-chair. They push her to the labor room. A few pregnant lady that was waiting at the lobby area make an eerie face when they heard my wife shouting along the way to the labor room. I followed at the back. Kapten Pait parked the car.
11.30 am, the nurse helped her to change her cloth. Pakai baju hospital. She still murmured, sakit, cepat la…Then, she lay on the bed. I was sitting on her left. One nurse said, da 8 cm, nak kluar sgt2 ni. After that, they start urge her to push harder. My wife seems like lose her energy. She stop push until the baby forehead shown. The nurse asked her not to stop, or the baby will lemas. 11.45am , the baby cried out, Alhamdulillah, finally she make it. Masa tu rasa bangganya sebab da jadi sorang bapa.
They clean up our son and other nurse do nursing on my wife – jahit luka. They left us for a while and i start azan on my son ears. He keep silent seems like understand what i am doing on him. After that, they were push to the ward and i need to make a payment for ward and their treatment.
Hari tu la antara hari yang sangat bermakna dalam hidup aku..Bangga sebab dah jadi bapa…Lepas ni ahli keluarga kami akan bertambah lagi sorg dengan kelahiran sorg lagi cahayamata dijangka 24/10. Tak sabar plak….